e) Is your present family a good example for your future family? Positives, negatives.
One’s future family always looks in some way like his present family. The habits you have learnt in your present family always reflect more or less in your future family. There are many qualities in my present family which I want have in my future family, for example fairness, tolerance. My parents tolerate me and I tolerate them. However there are qualities which I don’t want have in my future family – laziness, falseness etc.
f) Marriage x common law
It is very discussed theme of these days. From my point of view when two people love each other, want to live together and bring up the children it is not necessary to be married. However these day laws are quite intolerant for these people in the way like visiting sick people in hospital or sharing the property. It is also discussed in the context of homosexuals.
g) Your future partners properties
My future partner must be women. About two years younger then me…no, no, no…it doesn’t matter. However she should be quite intelligent, clever and pretty. Many people think that doesn’t matter on appearance, but I think this is quite important. She must understand me and she should like children because I want some offspring. She should be industry, hard-working and faithful. This is my wish. If this wish performs me it shows time. I want to get married after university if I have girlfriend.
h) Children – when, how many? Adoptions, abortions.
I want twins because I want two children and I don’t want to go through twice. Birth, cry and scream of children and so on. I want have children in about 30 years old when I will be ensured.
Adoption – it is an act when a family takes a child from a child house to live with them in their family. I think it is good thing for children because they can learn the life in the complete family. On the other hand the right of adoption is big positive for childless pairs.
Abortions yes x no? It is a big question of these days and it is hard for everyone to say what would be right. One can say that abortion would be good for people who don’t have money to bring up the children or who are doing school. However this is evidence of irresponsibility because today we have many varieties of anticonception and it depends mainly on the people to have or don’t have baby. You can also say that it would be good in the example of disable children. However ask yourself who can decide if the child would or wouldn’t live.
i) Responsibility for children, parents.
In a normal family it is usual that parents bring up the children and take care of them until they finish the school or find a job and get independent. On the other hand children are responsible to take care of the parents in their old age.
j) The role of the man and woman – duties, bringing up, job, career.
A couple years ago the role of man and woman were clearly given. The man should earn money and ensure the family in a financial way. Woman was responsible for a house and bringing up children. Today is all upside down. It is not important who earns money or brings up children. The women are equal to men. They both want to have job or do a career. It is very different from the past nowadays.
